A man's looks actually play a much smaller part, in what women find attractive, than what men think. You see it almost on a daily basis, but yet guys continue to ignore it, and that is a less attractive man with HOT woman. Most guys just say things like "oh he's probably rich and she's gold digger.". I am not going to deny that these type of women do exist, but what you need to realize is that you can be an average looking guy and pull some serious hotties. You just need to have solid game in and out.
Looks aren't everything, but yeah it is true a better looking guy will get more opportunities. Good looks can get most guys in the door, but a lot of them fail as soon as they open their mouth. Women do appreciate a good looking guy, but they will quickly dismiss him if his game is poor. They will also be quick to call a good looking guy out on being a player. I personally know women who avoid really good looking guys because they don't trust them.
Every man has the ability to improve his appearance to an extent and it is recommended that you do so, but there is only so much you can do. What you need to understand is that women are social beings and value social status way more than they do looks. If you can be fun, entertaining, confident, funny and social when you go out, you will pickup girls. You will be seen as a guy with high social status if you can possess these qualities. You should also be seen with people at all times and actively engaged with them. You will come off as a guy who just likes to go out and have a good time and is not concerned with trying to pickup tricks. This will definitely score you some major points. Girls are easily creeped out by guys who are just standing there scanning the room looking for women to talk to and pickup.
One of the best ways to make a girl attracted to you is to make her chase you. A hot girl loves a man who is challenge. At first, when you start talking to her, she will have her guard up and think you are another guy trying to pick her up. Hot girls assume that EVERY guy is trying to pick them up. You need to quickly disqualify her as potential suitor for you. Some guys will go as far as to act gay to make a girl think he's not trying to pick her. One of the best things you can do is to quickly put her in the "friend zone" and give more attention to her friends. Don't do what every other guy does and throw compliments at her. And if you do, make sure its in the form of a neg (backhanded compliments). She will instantly be more drawn to you. She will want to break through that friend zone "conquer" you. This is where push/pull can be HUGE. Push/pull is when you give her a little attention and make her think she's winning you over and then in an instant you disqualify her again. And you continually do this until you have her all over you. This will be like a fun challenging game for her and she will want to WIN. And when I say win I am talking about fucking your brains out. She will find so much satisfaction "winning" you over. Girls eat that kind of shit up.
Attraction is on a much deeper level for women than your looks. they value social status and personality way more, and the beautiful thing is that all men can work on those areas and improve them dramatically. Looks, well there is only so much you can do there. So armed with this knowledge you now know you can successfully pickup women and you can now STOP WORRYING if she finds you physically ATTRACTIVE, because IT DOESN'T MATTER!!!
Looks aren't everything, but yeah it is true a better looking guy will get more opportunities. Good looks can get most guys in the door, but a lot of them fail as soon as they open their mouth. Women do appreciate a good looking guy, but they will quickly dismiss him if his game is poor. They will also be quick to call a good looking guy out on being a player. I personally know women who avoid really good looking guys because they don't trust them.
Every man has the ability to improve his appearance to an extent and it is recommended that you do so, but there is only so much you can do. What you need to understand is that women are social beings and value social status way more than they do looks. If you can be fun, entertaining, confident, funny and social when you go out, you will pickup girls. You will be seen as a guy with high social status if you can possess these qualities. You should also be seen with people at all times and actively engaged with them. You will come off as a guy who just likes to go out and have a good time and is not concerned with trying to pickup tricks. This will definitely score you some major points. Girls are easily creeped out by guys who are just standing there scanning the room looking for women to talk to and pickup.
One of the best ways to make a girl attracted to you is to make her chase you. A hot girl loves a man who is challenge. At first, when you start talking to her, she will have her guard up and think you are another guy trying to pick her up. Hot girls assume that EVERY guy is trying to pick them up. You need to quickly disqualify her as potential suitor for you. Some guys will go as far as to act gay to make a girl think he's not trying to pick her. One of the best things you can do is to quickly put her in the "friend zone" and give more attention to her friends. Don't do what every other guy does and throw compliments at her. And if you do, make sure its in the form of a neg (backhanded compliments). She will instantly be more drawn to you. She will want to break through that friend zone "conquer" you. This is where push/pull can be HUGE. Push/pull is when you give her a little attention and make her think she's winning you over and then in an instant you disqualify her again. And you continually do this until you have her all over you. This will be like a fun challenging game for her and she will want to WIN. And when I say win I am talking about fucking your brains out. She will find so much satisfaction "winning" you over. Girls eat that kind of shit up.
Attraction is on a much deeper level for women than your looks. they value social status and personality way more, and the beautiful thing is that all men can work on those areas and improve them dramatically. Looks, well there is only so much you can do there. So armed with this knowledge you now know you can successfully pickup women and you can now STOP WORRYING if she finds you physically ATTRACTIVE, because IT DOESN'T MATTER!!!
