#Close
Every guy wants to meet a woman at a bar or club or in the middle of the day and end the conversation with the acquisition of her phone number. One of the best feelings is getting your targets number after a successful sarge. The term we use for this is number close or number closing. Number closing is obtaining a correct phone number from a girl during a pickup or sarge. The goal of most PUA's is to get somewhere around five or more quality number closes in a night of sarging. Giving a girl your own number does not count as a number close. In fact, if you give a girl your phone number (if she doesn't ask for it), nine times out of ten she will not call you.
Girls want to give you their number if they find you attractive or have a good reason to meet you again. You need to run the situation. You want to get her number and avoid giving yours out. If she wants to see you again she will call you. The reason that you should never give your number out is because you have given her all the power. She probably has hundreds of guys numbers in her phone. The odds of her calling you are not very good. Plus when you get her number you are now the ALPHA MALE and are in CHARGE. She has to wait to hear from you and it will keep her thinking about you. Plus, women want a man who can take charge of the situation and be a LEADER.
A good way of getting a girl’s number is to take it and not ask for it. Here is how most guys try to number close a girl “Can I get your number and maybe we can hangout some time?” Here is the better way. “Give me your number and maybe we can continue to talk in the future if you're lucky.” If they say no, who cares? There are plenty of numbers out there waiting to be taken by guys like you. The reason why it is better to tell a girl to give you her number instead of asking for it is because when you give a girl an option, there is a greater chance she will respond with a 'no'.
After you get her number DO NOT be the guy who does not stop blowing up her phone with texts or calls, however. Why? She will find you CREEPY and categorize you as a STALKER. She will also find you to be DESPERATE, which is a very unattractive quality to a girl. And more than likely she has seen your text or missed call and will call you back if she is interested. All that is needed is one call or text. And do not send her texts like "did you get my text?" or "how come you haven't responded?". The key is to make it seem like you have better things in your life than worrying about if she responds or not. The less it appears that you care, the more she will become attracted to you. Phone game is very critical. Do not be afraid to ignore her texts and calls once in awhile or take a longtime in between responses. These things will ultimately work to your advantage. It will keep her thinking about you as well as having her CHASE you, which is exciting for a girl. All of this will work in your favor. One thing to keep in mind is to wait a day or so before you contact her. Again, this is so you do not come across as desperate or needy.
Essentially, a number represents a good “lead” and is your communication tool to further your relationship with your TARGET.
Girls want to give you their number if they find you attractive or have a good reason to meet you again. You need to run the situation. You want to get her number and avoid giving yours out. If she wants to see you again she will call you. The reason that you should never give your number out is because you have given her all the power. She probably has hundreds of guys numbers in her phone. The odds of her calling you are not very good. Plus when you get her number you are now the ALPHA MALE and are in CHARGE. She has to wait to hear from you and it will keep her thinking about you. Plus, women want a man who can take charge of the situation and be a LEADER.
A good way of getting a girl’s number is to take it and not ask for it. Here is how most guys try to number close a girl “Can I get your number and maybe we can hangout some time?” Here is the better way. “Give me your number and maybe we can continue to talk in the future if you're lucky.” If they say no, who cares? There are plenty of numbers out there waiting to be taken by guys like you. The reason why it is better to tell a girl to give you her number instead of asking for it is because when you give a girl an option, there is a greater chance she will respond with a 'no'.
After you get her number DO NOT be the guy who does not stop blowing up her phone with texts or calls, however. Why? She will find you CREEPY and categorize you as a STALKER. She will also find you to be DESPERATE, which is a very unattractive quality to a girl. And more than likely she has seen your text or missed call and will call you back if she is interested. All that is needed is one call or text. And do not send her texts like "did you get my text?" or "how come you haven't responded?". The key is to make it seem like you have better things in your life than worrying about if she responds or not. The less it appears that you care, the more she will become attracted to you. Phone game is very critical. Do not be afraid to ignore her texts and calls once in awhile or take a longtime in between responses. These things will ultimately work to your advantage. It will keep her thinking about you as well as having her CHASE you, which is exciting for a girl. All of this will work in your favor. One thing to keep in mind is to wait a day or so before you contact her. Again, this is so you do not come across as desperate or needy.
Essentially, a number represents a good “lead” and is your communication tool to further your relationship with your TARGET.
