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LJBF aka "The Friend Zone"
Lets just be friends also known as the "friend zone" or as they say in the online pickup community LJBF. This is every mans worst fear when entering into a potential relationship with a girl that he is interested in sexually. From the beginning it would appear as if both you and her are equally interested and attracted to each other. But then for some REASON she loses INTEREST in you romantically and utters the words "lets just be friends". When this happens you feel your heart sink as you will now have to face the agony of seeing this girl with other men and you can only watch from the back seat as her FRIEND. Just so you guys know, this can all be avoided.
The "friend zone" happens because she has given up you and is now bored has become impatient with the situation. Maybe she thinks you are GAY because you haven't made any advances on her?! But she has so much fun with and thinks you are such a great guy that she still wants to keep you in her life. Well isn't that AWESOME!!! Now you get to watch her bang other dudes and talk to you about it!!! And the sad thing is, she had probably given you plenty of chances for you to escalate things to the next level, but you either overlooked it or failed each time an opportunity arose. She likes hanging out with you, but she wants to be with an ALPHA MALE. She wants someone who will take charge and stimulate her romantically and sexually. Most men fail to raise things to next level because they are being too cautious and waiting for the "perfect" moment and opportunity. Well guess what?! There is no PERFECT moment or opportunity. Get of fantasy land and stop watching cheesy love movies!!! ALPHA MALES do not wait for opportunities they CREATE them. They take what they want when they want.
Sometimes when a girl says "lets just be friends" (LJBF) it might be a test to see how into her you are. Maybe she does not know if you are attracted to her since you haven't made a move yet. Some girls will actually say this to try and move things along, hoping that you will finally make your move and say something to the contrary. But if you are an AFC (average frustrated chump) you will probably just go along with it and just flush everything you had been working for down the toilet. To be honest, things should never progress to the point where she ever has to have those words come out of her mouth.
The way you avoid LJBF or the dreaded "friend zone" is to keep things sexualized, intimate, and constantly escalating. You need to keep her stimulated and attracted to you. One of the best ways to do this is through kino (touching). Make it a point to frequently touch her. This s pretty straight forward, do things like hold her hand, put your arm around her, run your fingers through her hair, playfully touch her like pushing or nudging, kiss her cheek, etc... Constant kino will allow you guys to escalate things physically and be able to become more intimate with each other. The physical barrier is the hardest part for most men to overcome, but there are a lot of sneaky ways to establish kino and not make it awkward or weird. My advice is to look into getting a guide or book that goes into more in depth about this. There are games and routines that you can use that help you to kino escalate and moves things into a more sexual and intimate direction.
Maybe you are reading this because you have already fallen into the "friend zone" and really want to know how to get out. Well if this has happened there is still hope for you. The number one thing you can do is to back off immediately. Become less interested in the relationship than she is. Make more female friends and hang out with them more often then you do with her. This will work by making her jealous and triggering competitive instincts within her to fight for your attention. She will then become the one chasing you. Do not give her what she wants right away, make her sweat it out for a little bit. Be short with her in your texts and take long intervals in your response times, sometimes do not respond at all.
Once you have her fully chasing you and you guys do start hanging out again, this is when you will take the advice from earlier and escalate things with her physically. There are plenty of guides and books out there which can help you to master the art of making friends in to lovers. It can be a process, but in most cases you can escape the "friend zone" and have the romantic intimate relationship you always wanted with this girl. Do not throw in the towel!!!
The "friend zone" happens because she has given up you and is now bored has become impatient with the situation. Maybe she thinks you are GAY because you haven't made any advances on her?! But she has so much fun with and thinks you are such a great guy that she still wants to keep you in her life. Well isn't that AWESOME!!! Now you get to watch her bang other dudes and talk to you about it!!! And the sad thing is, she had probably given you plenty of chances for you to escalate things to the next level, but you either overlooked it or failed each time an opportunity arose. She likes hanging out with you, but she wants to be with an ALPHA MALE. She wants someone who will take charge and stimulate her romantically and sexually. Most men fail to raise things to next level because they are being too cautious and waiting for the "perfect" moment and opportunity. Well guess what?! There is no PERFECT moment or opportunity. Get of fantasy land and stop watching cheesy love movies!!! ALPHA MALES do not wait for opportunities they CREATE them. They take what they want when they want.
Sometimes when a girl says "lets just be friends" (LJBF) it might be a test to see how into her you are. Maybe she does not know if you are attracted to her since you haven't made a move yet. Some girls will actually say this to try and move things along, hoping that you will finally make your move and say something to the contrary. But if you are an AFC (average frustrated chump) you will probably just go along with it and just flush everything you had been working for down the toilet. To be honest, things should never progress to the point where she ever has to have those words come out of her mouth.
The way you avoid LJBF or the dreaded "friend zone" is to keep things sexualized, intimate, and constantly escalating. You need to keep her stimulated and attracted to you. One of the best ways to do this is through kino (touching). Make it a point to frequently touch her. This s pretty straight forward, do things like hold her hand, put your arm around her, run your fingers through her hair, playfully touch her like pushing or nudging, kiss her cheek, etc... Constant kino will allow you guys to escalate things physically and be able to become more intimate with each other. The physical barrier is the hardest part for most men to overcome, but there are a lot of sneaky ways to establish kino and not make it awkward or weird. My advice is to look into getting a guide or book that goes into more in depth about this. There are games and routines that you can use that help you to kino escalate and moves things into a more sexual and intimate direction.
Maybe you are reading this because you have already fallen into the "friend zone" and really want to know how to get out. Well if this has happened there is still hope for you. The number one thing you can do is to back off immediately. Become less interested in the relationship than she is. Make more female friends and hang out with them more often then you do with her. This will work by making her jealous and triggering competitive instincts within her to fight for your attention. She will then become the one chasing you. Do not give her what she wants right away, make her sweat it out for a little bit. Be short with her in your texts and take long intervals in your response times, sometimes do not respond at all.
Once you have her fully chasing you and you guys do start hanging out again, this is when you will take the advice from earlier and escalate things with her physically. There are plenty of guides and books out there which can help you to master the art of making friends in to lovers. It can be a process, but in most cases you can escape the "friend zone" and have the romantic intimate relationship you always wanted with this girl. Do not throw in the towel!!!
